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Living FREEDOM! / Re: Nonviolent Communication
« on: July 14, 2016, 05:16:45 PM »
Bob-rob,
It appears you may have missed some things regarding NVC... He uses the word need just to refer to the metaphysical needs all humans have. We all recognize that humans have the same physical needs. Rosenberg simply expanded the term need to include the metaphysical which we also all have in common.
To say that you need $100 for medicine for your wife is confusing your stately/plan with your actual need. Remember that all humans have the same needs. Not all humans have a need for money to buy medicine for a spouse. But we do have the need for the health of our loved ones.
I actually love the use of the term need with NVC, because it helps us relate to other humans at a life promoting level. The idea of physical needs is to get needs fulfilled to sustain and promote life. The same is true with metaphysical needs.
It appears you may have missed some things regarding NVC... He uses the word need just to refer to the metaphysical needs all humans have. We all recognize that humans have the same physical needs. Rosenberg simply expanded the term need to include the metaphysical which we also all have in common.
To say that you need $100 for medicine for your wife is confusing your stately/plan with your actual need. Remember that all humans have the same needs. Not all humans have a need for money to buy medicine for a spouse. But we do have the need for the health of our loved ones.
I actually love the use of the term need with NVC, because it helps us relate to other humans at a life promoting level. The idea of physical needs is to get needs fulfilled to sustain and promote life. The same is true with metaphysical needs.
